To start I just want to apologise for not writing a post for almost 3 weeks. You see my and my loving girlfriend went on holiday to Corfu at the beginning of the month for a week and then I was attempting to discover something i could write about, as well as how to write about it. Then it occurred to me ‘let’s shar
e what i think of love’ (me and the voices in my head suggested this idea, haha). So here we are and i am going to share with you my thoughts and views on love.
So love, where do I start hmmmm! Well in my opinion, there are 4 types or categories in regards to love. I believe i am an individual who has experienced all 4 categories throughout my life. The first love is that of the love you receive from family which comes from the highest levels of care for the ones called your own, as they
are a part of your own flesh and blood. This type of love appears to forgive all wrongs and no matter the issue, you still stand shoulder to shoulder in times of hardship. However, within family circles, wounds can penetrate far deeper due to this love and level of caring. A person belongs to a family and has to love them no matter what which makes this type of love an extremely powerful one indeed. Losing family would be like having a chunk of your own flesh savagely and forcibly carved from your body.
The second type of love I consider to be important to mention is that of the love people have for one another as friends. Some people see their friends as an extension of their family but members of which they have chosen. This can be seen as a group or groups of people with similarities who have found that they have connections with one another, with that being their collective styles in fashion, music or hobbies and activities. These are people of which you don’t tend to question and your willing to jump straight to their aid if and when it is needed. However, I have found that it is incredible hard to find friends of whom are more than willing to reciprocate this gesture of loyalty and friendship, therefore this type of love often rises from its place in your life and leaves you, yet it can be quickly replaced with swift action.
This quite accurately leads me upon the third type of love of which i have thoughtfully entitled fleeting love, a one night stand and a somewhat needy type of love (I don’t judge those of whom have one night stands, they are just not necessarily for me). By all means if you want to have sex with different people on different occasions then go for it but, personally ‘been there done that and it’s not my cuppa rosy lea.’ As far as i am concerned this type of love is the most destructive for all parties out of all the types of love i am sharing with you. My reasons for this is that this type of love is one that tricks a person. This is due to it feeling real and full of true passion…………………. while it lasts (that’s not a comment on my sexual prowess by the way). Once it is all over like the next day for example, there is this sudden emotional decent into ones mind as you realised you used this person’s body as they have used your’s, in order to obscure and prevent the feeling of being lonely and possibly lost within love. You then come to the realisation that this act only enhances those feelings and you find yourself within a vicious circle of: loneliness, invisible or drunken love, sex, rejection and then back to loneliness. This only stops when you grow some bollocks or lady bollocks (depending on your gender of course), and say ‘you know what enough is enough i want some sort of relationship which has real love, none of this fleeting love crap!!!!!!!!!
The fourth and arguably the greatest type of love of which i have experienced and still am experiencing, is that of actual unadulterated love, or true love (depending on what world your mind has fled to after reading this, as to which phrase steals your fancy. ooohhhhhh!). This type or style of love is one of which is based on a mutual/natural decision between two parties to be within each others lives. The kind of love where sex is not the aim however, the benefit of being part of the relationship. The highlight and the aim to me is to have that person’s face to be the last face you see before you go to sleep and the first one you see when you awake from your slumber. This type of love feels and overwhelms you with emotion and makes you feel wanted, invincible and ultimately human. The kind of love that fills you with pride, admiration for the other person and provides you with the feeling that you have the power to happily take on Hades, Satan, the world superpowers and all the gods in the universes (if you believe in that sort of thing) if it is required of you. This type of love has such an effect on you that you would be more than willing to take your last breath so that your partner could continue to grace the world with theirs. In this type of love the pair of you happily plan your future together as one and you look to and fight to make this future a reality for one another. This is what this particular type of love means to me as a human, and i feel blessed to have found this love. This type of love is brought to life through the one of whom is my one and only actual/true love of this world and the next. This is power of which i believe me and my partner Jodie Emma Wigg aka @fibroloveaffair have within one another.
I would just like to say thank you all for reading this blog post, i am glad to have shared my views on love with one and all of you. If you have any questions you would like ask of me, or even just want to share with me your thought on my writing and my views, feel free to comment or message. Rest assured there will be no judgements from me, so please don’t make a snap decision and judge me.
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